Sunday, August 19, 2018

A Strange Puzzle

One has to wonder what would cause a man to murder his young pregnant wife and two small daughters??
This thirty-three year old did just that in Colorado almost two weeks ago. 


Taking a good look at his face, he does not seem like a person who would do this.
AND, there is no possible excuse for committing such a violent act.



What I did read in another report was that although he made a good wage, he only possessed $10 in his wallet? 

Were this family, like many today, living beyond their means. His wife had not long returned 
from away for a few weeks spending time with her family. This would have cost money. Was he beyond himself as to how to cope? 

For whatever the reason, he will now have to live his life remembering what he's done.
That is a hard sentence in itself.  

When will people learn to give and take?
To speak out their problems together in a mature manner and stand together.

This breaks my heart.  



Ephesians 5:22-33 New King James Version (NKJV)

Marriage—Christ and the Church

22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might [a]sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
YES! Throw PRIDE and SELFISHNESS out the door and regard each other with respect. 
















Thursday, July 26, 2018

God Hates Violence

God is LOVE and he hates violence.



We can CHOOSE to be GOOD or we can CHOOSE to be BAD. 
I Dislike what is bad. I believe that evil should be brought to the light. We are ALL sinners and we all do wrong. No one is perfect. However, there is a difference between that and someone who deliberately chooses to hurt others over and over. I call these people evil and I believe, they have opened themselves up to the devil and to evil spirits.

I once saw an ugly little creature enter into a sleeping man. Yes, he sat on that mans head and after a while, he sank down into that mans body to reside in him.  From a young age, I have been aware of the SPIRITUAL WORLD. I can't see it at will, I see it only as God permits.

Sometimes we can look at a person and see the evil within. Or we can get a sense or feel of the evil.
Yet Satan is deceitful above all we can imagine.



We are to be aware of violence and all that pertains to it, yet, we ourselves and to keep free from retaliating in like form.

MENTAL ILLNESS is a sad affliction. The truly mentally ill are beautiful people who suffer due to brain chemicals which are confused and uncontrollable. These can be helped by diet, special medications and natural therapies. I prefer the natural and have seen great results with vitamin therapy. (The calcium/magnesium supplement! IntraCal™ is a high-quality form of calcium orotate and magnesium orotate. Orotates are mineral salts of orotic acid used to make DNA and RNA. They pass easily through cell membranes and in effect ferry mineral atoms into cells and tissues. Contains 90vegetarian. capsules) These can be purchased online for a reasonable price.) They are a third of the price of a prescription in the USA!! 

Most who suffer from this debilitation do their utmost to live the best they can. However, many who have a personality disorder intentionally hurt others and cause havoc.  




Did Jesus ever get angry?? Yes, he did.
Did he display that anger?? Yes, he did. 
Did he word that anger??    Yes, he did. 
Matthew 21:12-13
His was a JUST anger. He had a right to be angry and show emotion at the wrong he saw. BUT, after expressing that anger, he did not hold on to it, so neither should we.  

Jesus suffered, he didn't live a carefree, problem free life. What he did do was leave us an example of how to make a difference through kindness and love.
 















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Monday, July 23, 2018

SHE DEVIL - VICTIMISES MALES


                                                                   MALE VICTIMISER


The law is supposed to protect the innocent.          

Lawmakers should investigate claims of anything deviating from that law.

I am writing this in frustration about a Borderline/Histrionic/Narcissistic Personality Disorder who is a shrewd manipulator of the law.

How can I, assume this person has a Mental Illness?

My Qualifications: B.N. (Aus) and a B.S.N. (U.S.A.) holding a Postgraduate Degree in Mental Health Nursing with a 7/7 High-Distinction from the Royal Brisbane Hospital/Queensland University of Technology.  I also hold a Diploma in Counselling/Psychology from the Australian Institute of Professional Counsellors.  So I am well skilled in my analysis. 


What an Abused Woman Does Not Do or She MAY DO!


1.      She does not go straight to the law and report the abused. The reason being, she is afraid of retribution from the perpetrator.


2.      She plans an escape, going to somewhere she hopes NOT to be found. This may be to a women's refuge or far-away to another suburb or a even a different state.
3.       She might even change her name. Making sure to protect herself from being found.
4.      Why go to such lengths??? Because she has a legitimate reason NOT to be easily found. She is TERRIFIED of the abuser.
·         When a woman deviates from the general rule of self-preservation, its because SHE IS  NOT AFRAID. 
·         How can she fool the law-enforcers by declaring - SHE IS AFRAID??
By clever manipulation.
Why does she do this??  POWER, Entitlement, ENJOYMENT.
She-is-a-deviant. She-is-a-Personality-Disordered-Person. Reference   

A Borderline Personality Disorder
Blackmailed into Fatherhood: Borderline women, and men who love them. By Shari Schreiber, M.A.
            “Women who ‘entrap’ are typically bright, attractive/alluring, highly seductive and charismatic--but their moods are mercurial, and behavior patterns are volatile. Relationships are characterized by an ongoing series of breakups or periods of distancing, and reunions. Wildly alternating relational dynamics (come here/go away) can feel confusing and emotionally injurious, leaving you with the sense that they either love you or hate you! Within the same day or hour, their perceptions of you can shift dramatically--, and you'll be feeling adored/idealized or devalued/criticized/rejected. These behaviors and traits are consistent with Borderline Personality Disorder, but there's more: 
Borderlines are narcissistic--but you'll also observe other problems, such as; desperate attempts to gain attention, intense/irrational abandonment fears, lack of empathy, extreme jealousy, lying, poor impulse control, extramarital affairs, drug/alcohol abuse, hypersexuality, 'crazy-making' interactions, low self-esteem, rebound relationships, passive-aggression, cognitive distortion, self-harming behaviors, eating disorders, panic/anxiety issues, OCD, suicidal ideation, pervasive neediness/clinginess, emotional volatility, stalking, etc. While it's the responsibility of both parties to ensure conception, males are easily seduced and infinitely more vulnerable to getting entrapped than they believe--particularly when their voiced concerns/queries are met with assurances that, “it’s safe.” Think this won't happen to you? Think again! Women with agendas to have children give men no say in this matter.”
** This is where THAT woman is coming from. I believe she had trapped HIM again to get another baby. When no longer needing him, she ran to the police.                                      
She has a Mental Illness!!! The children with her are unsafe 
A Histrionic personality disorder
1. Always seeking attention….
2. Excessively emotional, dramatic or sexually provocative to gain attention
3. Speaks dramatically with strong opinions, but few facts or details to back them up
4. Easily influenced by others
5.Shallow, rapidly changing emotions
6.Excessive-concern-with-physical-appearance                                                                                    
7.Thinks relationships with others are closer than they really are
A Narcissistic personality disorder
1.Belief that you're unique and more important than others
2.Fantasies about power, success, and attractiveness
3.Failure to recognize others' needs and feelings
4.Exaggeration of achievements or talents (Calles herself a student of LAW on FB)
5.Expectation of constant praise and admiration
6.Arrogance
7. Unreasonable expectations of favors and advantages, often taking advantage of others
How is this particular woman fooling the law - especially this last instance?
1.      She manipulated the man who loved her by using their young daughter. The little 4-year-old on the phone requested, the DVO father, to “please come to the park for my birthday, Papa.”  Not wanting to disappoint the little one and THINKING and HOPING his ex-partner had changed her mind about wanting him….. he goes.
      HE IS CAUGHT IN HER WEB OF DECEPTION AGAIN.
2.      She sends mobile phone texts to him. He answers her with a text.
Then (likely) she deletes her text to him, leaving only his return text.
THUS MAKING HIM LOOK LIKE THE INSTIGATOR!
Discrepancies with this woman
1.      On and off with this same man for over 6 years. (?? And she’s afraid???)
2.      Continually placing DVOs on and often removing same.
3.      Forever changing her mobile phone number and email address.
4.      Has accused different people of sexually molesting her children. (One has to wonder if she does, but projects this on to others to cover herself.)
5.      At times declares on legal papers that she is of aboriginal heritage.
6.      Has had 5 pregnancies, and 4 births with 4 different fathers.
7.      Lived, where the HE did and moved away, then came back to where he was again.  (All in the same six years) even though she declares she is afraid of the same man.
8.      This man was present with her at the hospital during the births of their 2 children. Yet on the Birth Certificates, it is declared, “Father Unknown.”  She has refused to give them his surname.
9.      Yet to Child Protection Services, she has named him as the father.
10.  She had him charged with a DVO the day after the first child's birth.
11.   Her eldest son from the age of 8 years, has been placed in charge of minding and caring for his younger siblings. 
I am sure that many who read this have had the same problems.
Abuse is not restrained to just women. Men, Children and the Elderly are all victims.
If we don't speak up, how can it ever change? 
  

Have you watched the movie "GASLIGHT" its an old one, and shows the terror of living with a personality type person.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_kGH5BZa_Q




THERE IS POWER IN KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING