Friday, October 9, 2015

About Forgiveness and Forgiving.

Who can understand the mind of someone who is cruel?

Someone who intentionally hurt's or harm's another person.

Why do they do it? What is their reason?

I was told in the end, that the reason I suffered from someone's abuse for many years was, because HE wanted ME, to be perfect...

Strange?  The imperfect -- expected perfection?

For those of you who don't understand what a Narcissistic Personality Disorder is:
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Here in short, is what the article describes:
Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultraconfidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. You may be generally unhappy and disappointed when you're not given the special favors or admiration you believe you deserve. Others may not enjoy being around you, and you may find your relationships unfulfilling.

YES! they are hard to live with and they are destructive.

I wrote about my Domestic Violence experience that spanned many years.

Do I forgive him. Yes, I do. I feel nothing at all in my memories of those hard years.

The only main hurt I have is that of an abortion. For this, I am eternally sorry.

To Learn About My Story, read my book = Abuse Beaten - From Victim to Victor.

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It's the ability to let go.

And, with that comes the POWER to heal the memories.

The power to grow and become that wonderful person God meant for you to be. - So - Forgive.

Un-forgiveness only hurt's yourself.

It never hurt's the other person.

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